Friday, April 8, 2011

The Gift of an Ordinary Day

My blog post title is stolen from one of my favorite books, The Gift of an Ordinary Day, by Katrina Kenison. Kenison is a mom who writes about her own experiences raising her children and finding beauty and grace in the mundane aspects of motherhood. Today was a perfectly ordinary day for us. The children and I didn't leave the house, stayed in our pajamas for most of the day, and spent a lot of time outside in our yard, playing in the beautiful spring weather.

We needed a day like today. We're all getting over a cold that has passed its way around our family, Mark's recent promotion at work (hooray!) means that he is working long hours as he begins his new role, our toddler is having a hard time adjusting to the idea that he is no longer the star of the show, and we're not sleeping much as parents of an infant. After many days of feeling like we are barely treading water, today was a perfect reminder that the fog does lift and that ordinary days can be a gift. Luke was cooperative and sweet all day, Leah wasn't fussy, and we had so much fun together. I took a few pictures of the kids, which show how we spent our time:



Luke woke up this morning asking to play with his new Moon Sand demolition vehicle. Since this is an outside-only toy, we were all out on the back porch by 7 a.m., busy contructing and knocking down sand blocks. Even though the sun was not fully up yet, Luke insisted on wearing his sunglasses, which he calls "Bee Shields". He has a new phobia of bees and decided that these shields would protect him from bees flying in his eyes.


Later this morning, Luke found 2 caterpillars which he adopted and now live in his bucket (although 1 has been "sleeping" since this afternoon when Luke squeezed him a little too hard). He spent hours petting them, putting grass in the bucket for them to eat for lunch, and talking to them. "You're a Cutie McTootie", he cooed to one caterpillar over and over again. When I went inside to get my camera, Luke called out, "Mommy, I gave my caterpillar a kiss!" I am proud of myself for not freaking out about the amount of time and close contact that we had with these creatures today.



Thankfully, Leah was surrounded by all pink that brought me back to my more comfortable girly girl roots.



And what ordinary day would be complete without dressing up our sweet baby in some sort of adorable outfit?!


Here's the best part: It's Friday night, just shy of 9 p.m., both children are sound asleep, and Mark and I are able for the first time this week to relax on the couch, watch tv, and have a real conversation without competing with a crying baby. Ahh, life is good!

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Easter Happenings



We're preparing for Easter a little early, since Luke's birthday falls so close to Easter Day this year, and we want to spread out all of the fun. This weekend, Luke decorated Easter eggs for the first time, using the traditional PAAS kit that reminds me so much of my childhood (with the colored tablets that dissolve in vinegar/water). I wasn't sure how well Luke would do waiting for each egg to absorb its color (patience is not his strong suit), and if we'd be successful at not spilling anything, but it went very well and Luke had a lot of fun. Here's our big boy in action:










Leah sat on our laps and watched her big brother, and it was a fun family project that put us in an Easter mood. Luke even asked to eat one of the eggs for dinner, declared that he didn't like hard-boiled eggs after tasting a bite, and decided that putting stickers on the them was much more fun!

Thursday, March 31, 2011

March Madness



Our family loves college basketball, and March Madness is an exciting time for us as fans. However, this year, Wake Forest's performance in the regular season was so abysmal that they didn't even make the tournament. I almost didn't post pictures of us in our WFU attire, but Leah has so many cute Wake Forest baby outfits, that I'll just say that we are true fans who are looking forward to next year and better times ahead.



The boys console each other after yet another WFU b-ball loss...


Check out those chunky legs showing off the Wake Forest socks!

We created our own March Madness this past weekend when 2 of the BBs (my college friends) came to visit. The weather was 20 degrees below normal and rainy (a South Carolina get-together in late March sounded so warm when we were planning it!), so we decided to have some indoor fun and teach Luke (who was the first & oldest BB baby) how to play flip cup. Hopefully, the BBs will continue to pass on their love of this college game to all of the BB children, so that the next generation will have a full team to compete against their parents someday!


Luke takes it all in, as he has his first flip cup lesson...


"Cheers!" with BB Ang to begin the game.


He's a natural!


Here are some other pictures of the BBs' visit:


Leah loved the lullaby that BB Sav sang to her (the Golden Girls theme song).


Leah joins 5 BB Baby Boys as the first BBBG (BB Baby Girl)!

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Luke & Leah's Latest

Luke:
-is starting to play more by himself lately. I love this new era of self-directed play, as it allows me to do necessary things like change Leah's diaper, answer the phone, and go to the bathroom by myself. Luke favorite toys are his trains, cars, and trucks, and he pushes them around the floor and imaginary roads. The other day, he shrieked, "Mommy, get OFF the train track!" as I was making lunch in the kitchen. Apparently, the grout between each floor tile was a "track", which made taking a step in any direction quite a challenge. I ended up hopping from tile to tile as I gathered food from the refrigerator and pantry, in order to avoid stepping on Luke's tracks. He found this quite amusing, and shows you who runs the show around here.

-would eat "p-jelly" sandwiches for every meal if I let him. It's become our default lunch for him, and out the window goes my attempt to richly vary his daily diet. I make myself feel better about this by using organic peanut butter and natural whole wheat bread. I won't even start on Luke's current lollipop obsession...

- LOVES paint with water books. He's not a real crafty, sit-down-at-the-table-and- draw kind of kid, but somehow is enamored with these hard to find books, and has become quite the little Picasso recently.


Who needs expensive artwork?

-still shows no interest in the potty, although I'm still holding on to my wildly unpopular philosophy that he'll do it quickly and without a fight when HE's ready. However, several factors may cause me to change my mind, including the fact that preschool does begin in September and he has to be potty-trained by then. Also, my child is often mistaken for a 5-year old due to his height, and is starting to look ridiculous with a diaper peeking out over the top of his pants.

-must have his "struction" site set up at all times. I made the HUGE mistake of picking up these toys a few weeks ago and had a distraught toddler on my hands until the construction vehicles were precisely lined up in their correct places again.



-can count well into his twenties (he usually get distracted somewhere around 26 or 27), now knows all of his lowercase letters (uppercase letters are soooo last year for Luke!), and is starting to recognize some sight words. I'll call that "reading" and believe that he's a genius.

-is quite a comedian. He loves nicknames, and has started referring to his sister as "Nutty" or "Nutters", since he heard us calling Leah, "Peanut". He put my shoes on the other day, and was making cheesy faces at the camera, which was very funny. He makes me laugh every day and is my sweet, sweet, boy, who still asks: "Snuggle me, Mama". Like his Daddy, Luke melts my heart with his quick wit, charm, and irresistible dimples.




Outtakes from Luke's "What Not to Wear" audition.


Leah:
-coos and "talks" to us, and is such a sweet, responsive baby. She's smiley and happy most of the time, and is content to lie on her back, busily bicycle-pedaling her little legs and waving her arms for long periods of time. She still has her fussy period in the late afternoon/evening, where nothing really works, but at least Daddy comes home during this time and can help.


Never enough kisses...

-LOVES the Baby Bjorn. I can tote her around in the grocery store, have hands free to get things done around the house, etc. It's our fall-back position when she's cranky or needs a change of scenery. We didn't really use the Bjorn much with Luke, except as a occasional utilitarian way to carry him, but we are raving about its magical powers now.

-has slept in her "Rock N' Play" since she was a few weeks old. Our friends lent us this miracle device when I told them about Leah's reflux (if we lie her flat on her back after a feeding, she spits it all back up). She does so much better on an incline, and is sleeping longer at night. She'll sleep for 3-4 hour stretches, and usually goes right back down after a feeding. Leah's already into the large size Swaddle Me blankets (a must so she doesn't startle and wake up!), and we're starting to see the light at the end of the (sleep-deprived) tunnel.


Our little burrito baby.

-has never taken a pacifier and has decided that bottles are for the birds. This is ironic, since the first thought that popped into my head when we found out that we were having a girl was "We need pink pacifiers." (Mark's first thought was, "We need to pay for a wedding.") I spent way too much time during my pregnancy registering for, purchasing, and preparing Leah's new stash of pink "bahs" and even bought a cute pink pacifier pod and wipes to tote in my diaper bag. Sigh... And I can't even process her current bottle boycott, with the idea that I may not be able to be separated from her for more than a couple of hours until sometime in the year 2012 when she is done nursing and I am no longer her primary food source.

-is instantly soothed by white noise. It seems like we always have a bathroom fan or white noise machine going in our house (which is better than always having someone crying). Our new favorite thing is the vent fan above the stove. We blast it on high (and it's so loud that you have to shout to be heard over it), stand with Leah cradled in our arms, and she falls asleep in about 3.2 seconds. The only problem is that you can't take more than 4 steps away from the fan or turn it down to low, or she wakes up again. I'm getting to know my microwave buttons very well, after hours of standing and staring at them closely.

-has bright blue eyes. Since Mark, Luke, and I are all brown-eyed, we are shocked that the recessive gene in our families has appeared in our fair daughter's complexion and eye color. But they're big and round, and a beautiful shade of blue, and it still surprises me to see their light hue when I look at my baby girl.



-is changing and growing faster than I can blink. Her first few months are flying by, and I am trying as much as possible to savor her babyhood and share special alone time with her every day. I could just kiss those chubby cheeks and revel in those rolls forever, and am doing the best I can amidst the craziness of parenting two young children to take it all in and preserve my memories of these special days.

Saturday, March 19, 2011

Our Furry Child



If you are a loyal blog follower, you know that we consider Winnie to be one of our children. She was actually our first baby, and Mark and I devoted much of our pre-child married years to Winnie. We took her to Doggy Day Care, attended Friday night "Yappy Hour" specifically for puppy socialization, she has collars and scarves for every season/holiday, etc.

It was our great joy and relief that Winnie adjusted so well to having a little brother when Luke was born. She was gentle and sweet with Luke as an infant, and still tolerates her brother's rough housing, climbing on her, and pulling on her tail with unlimited patience.


Best friends.


Our nieces all adore Winnie as well, and look forward to seeing their furry cousin when we visit. They have all snuck into Winnie's crate to snuggle, love to pet and chase her, and give her LOTS of affection and love.


Alexis tells people: "I don't like dogs, but I LOVE Winnie!"



Maya used to refer to Winnie as her "big brudda".



Lauren peeks out from inside Winnie's crate.


Upon Leah's arrival, Winnie seamlessly adjusted to having yet another tiny being in our home that required us to divert attention from our furry child. Winnie's walks are less frequent these days, her belly rubs are given absent-mindedly as we attend to our human children's more immediate needs, and her parents don't give her nearly the amount of 1 on 1 time that she deserves. But one thing remains unchanged: We love Winnie and trust her with our human children without question. She is concerned when we can't calm Leah, just as she was when Luke cried as a baby. I joke that I can leave Leah and Winnie alone on the bed together, but can't trust Luke with his baby sister without close supervision. Winnie is our sweet, furry girl who gives our family unconditional love. I think about Luke and Leah, who have never known life without Winnie, as she was one of the first things that they responded to and recognized. And I know that their lives are incredibly rich for having Winnie as their loving canine sister.

Thursday, March 17, 2011

Mommy's Lucky Charms









Happy St. Patrick's Day from our little leprechauns!

Sunday, March 13, 2011

Just Like Daddy

Luke ADORES his Daddy, and often imitates Mark's phrases, gestures, and actions. One of Luke's favorite things to play with is Mark's identification badge for GE. A few weeks ago, Mark set-up a craft project where Luke could make his own badge, complete with the retractable badge holder. My boys were so cute together as they worked on their project, and I documented a few steps of their creative process:


A brave Daddy helps Luke snip with his "safety scissors".



Next came the gluing (by far, Luke's favorite part!).



Of course Luke had to sign his name...



The finished product! (Look who's still clutching that precious glue stick!)

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And not to be left out, our little peanut is rapidly growing tall, just like Daddy, too! At Leah's 2-month appointment this week, she was 1 ounce shy of 14 pounds (98th percentile), and is already 25 inches long (off the charts for height!). It is unbelievable to me that she has grown 5", or 25% of her birth length, in 2 months. We are officially in 6-month clothes already, as the 3 month sleepers have suddenly become too short for our long-legged baby! Here's a video which gives you a glimpse into the life of Leah. It pretty much sums it up: smile, kick, wave arms, coo, hiccup, spit up- repeat! The only things missing are cry, sleep, and eat, but we didn't feel like those were necessary to film. Enjoy!

Click HERE for Leah's internet video debut.