A brief wrap-up of some of my favorite things about vacation last month:
-Having another adult to talk to during the day, and an extra set of hands to help all the time is pure heaven for a stay-at-home mom. I can not stress enough how much I valued all of the grown-up conversations that I was able to have, and the tremendous help that I received from our families while we were away.
- I didn't need to clean my house for almost 3 weeks (although those of you who know me well realize that I may have gone through slight vacuuming withdrawal)!
-Thanks to a wonderful mother and mother-in-law, I was relieved from planning and preparing almost 60 meals, and only set foot in the grocery store once, voluntarily (and without 2 resistant children in tow).
-Showers at home: Purely a necessary functional activity, completed as quickly as possible. They consist of plopping my 3 year-old in front of a video and entertaining my infant (by peeking my head out every 30 seconds or so, dripping wet, doing some crazy song and dance) to prevent her from screaming.
Showers on vacation: My equivalent of a spa getaway. While my children were busily playing with grandparents or Daddy, I took luxurious, lengthy, relaxing showers (and even had time to shave my legs!).
-Every single day during our 3 weeks away, we planned an exciting excursion for the children. These outings were so much fun, and Leah was such a great age this year to be toted around in the Bjorn or in the stroller. Not yet mobile and very flexible with morning nap schedules, our Nutty happily came along for the ride, while Luke was old enough to really enjoy and participate in new activities.
-Vacation = different sleeping arrangements, and this meant that Leah slept in bed with me for most of our time away from home. There was something very sweet about this change in our routine, and for one of the weeks, Luke and Mark slept together in a second bed next to us. Having my entire family snuggling so closely, and contained in one room together was quite wonderful and dear.
- Leah positively beamed at everyone all the time. She was a delightful, happy baby, who charmed all of her extended family with her constant smiles, sparkling eyes, and delicious, chubby rolls.
- I took Luke to his first movie. We saw "Winnie the Pooh", and were the only people in the entire theater. He called it the "cinema", which was adorable, and held my hand for most of the show. Luke was fascinated by the projector, the big screen, and the retractable seats, and sat still for most of the 1 hour and 9 minute film. It was my first movie "date" with my son, and was a perfect first show for us to see together.
-Unfortunately, I caught some sort of nasty virus in the middle of our last week of vacation (while in PA), and literally couldn't lift my head off the pillow for almost 2 days. Mimi took Luke to the zoo, brought Leah to me when I needed to nurse her, and gave me chicken noodle soup in bed. The recurring thought in my head was, "If you have to be sick, even at age 32, the best place to be is at home where your mom can take care of you (and your children)."
-Discovery of the Year: Luke's "Telephone Heads" (headphones). We plugged these into the portable DVD player or laptop while Luke watched his DVDs and we heard... blissful silence. For the past 3 years, we have listened to hours of Elmo's World, Mickey Mouse Clubhouse, and Bob the Builder while traveling in the car, and finally, we got smart. There were wonderful periods where Mark and I had real, adult discussions in the front seat of the car while Leah napped and Luke watched his DVDs while wearing his telephone heads. (For the record, out of the 20+ hours we traveled in the car over the 3-week period, the children only napped at the same time for a grand total of 3 minutes. No, I'm not exaggerating. This is 100% true & we timed it. Therefore, the telephone heads were even more welcome than ever, so Mommy and Daddy could enjoy some peace and quiet!).
-Most of all, Mark and I felt so blessed that our families provided us with 2 distinctive wonderful beach vacations, with so many treasured memories and traditions for our children to embrace and anticipate each summer.
And now that we're settled back in at home, I've finally organized our pictures from Part 3 of our vacation: our annual week in Harrisburg. We did some really fun activities this year, including a day trip to the National Aquarium in Baltimore:
Mimi and Luke check out the fish.
Our expressions watching the dolphin show.
-We also returned to one of our favorite traditions, Chocolate World:
Greeting the Hershey Kiss.
CHOCOLATE!!
He's an equal-opportunity hugger.
Kid in a candy store... literally.
Daddy's favorite candy!
-Of course, there was lots of fun to be had around the house, too:
The guys and their 3-Man-Band.
Grandpa's girl!
Here's a slideshow of more of our pictures from our fun week in PA: